“Little town up ahead – ‘bout a mile,” he offered. “We’re in need of some more supplies.”Arianna’s eye’s widened, “Have you been … way up here… before?” she asked incredulously?“No,” he answered with a shake of his head.
“Then how…?” she began but didn’t finish.
He smiled then, a lazy, easy smile. He nodded his head toward the north. “It’s stickin’ out – plain as day – on that hillside.”
(Janette Oke, A Gown of Spanish Lace)
I know that the public declaration for home schooling moms is supposed to be, “Twaddle me not!” But there are times in life when a little brain candy is appropriate. Recently, I had a whole day to waste. Yes, waste! My van needed new brakes, shocks and struts. My husband was traveling. I dropped the van off at the dealer and wandered around my town for the day while the repairs were being made.
I had a plan. I had brought a list of books that I wanted to read. I made my way to the library first. A quick check of the library’s computer showed me that the library only owned one of the books I had hoped to read and it was checked out. I made my way to the used bookstore and, again, I scored zero. So, I bought a Janette Oke book instead. I was still in high school when my Mom bought a copy of Love Comes Softly. I have fond memories of reading the entire series.
When I became hungry, I made my way to the air-conditioned mall to eat lunch. I couldn’t bring myself to leave the comfort of the cool air, but I hate shopping. I spent the next couple of hours sitting on a padded bench reading. I am so glad Marissa wasn’t with me. I would have embarrassed her to death!
Over the past couple of weeks I have thought about a city on a hill many times. Even when I was first reading it, this blurb brought to mind the following verses from Matthew:
“You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt has become tasteless, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled under foot by men. ‘You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden; nor does anyone light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house.’ ” (Chapter 5, verses 13-15, NAS)
When I first started blogging and communicating with other people on-line about home schooling, the most common argument I heard by Christians against home schooling was that if all Christians home educated their children, the government schools would be stripped of the Christian influence. There would be no salt and light. First, I cannot tell you how irrational this sounds to me. I don’t foresee a time when every Christian pulls their child(ren) out of the government school system. The argument is not based on logic; it is based on raw emotion.
Whenever we are passionate about anything, when someone disagrees with our viewpoint or decision, it feels like a personal attack. For the most part, we are all passionate about our parenting choices. I remember being in a discussion where people on both sides of the home schooling fence presented their ideas as if they were direct revelation from God: the one right way. Many home schooling parents have a conviction that home schooling is the only way to fulfill the commandment in Deuteronomy 6:7 to teach their children diligently. I read comments by parents whose children attended government schools that implied that parents who home school are disobeying God’s command to be salt and light. I even read one comment that said that home schooling proved that the home schooling parent lacked faith in God and parented out of fear. As I considered the quote from Janette Oke’s book, I began to create a mind picture of a city set on a hill.
What does the city look like? It is separate and unique from the surrounding environment. A candle or a light in a dark room is the same. My mental journey took me further. Why do people place cities on hills? This strategic location protects the city by allowing the inhabitants to see what is approaching. I also pondered the fact that a city on a hill attracts travelers. It is inviting. It is a place your physical needs can be met. I am not sure that this is true of the Church today.
The Old Testament tells the story of a nation that had a separate religion and culture from the surrounding nations. They were a divine, special and holy nation. The Bible over and over has physical pictures meant to portray the spiritual truth against mixing. There is a Biblical prohibition against interbreeding animals, mixing seeds and wearing garments that contain wool and linen (Leviticus 19:19). More familiar, there is a command against being unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14).
Has God changed? Instead of boundaries does he now require assimilation? Does not the same Bible that encourages me to be salt and light also teach that Jesus came to divide (Matthew 10:34)?
I do not think I have proven (nor was it my intention) that any Christian who sends his or her child to government school is being disobedient to God. But, I have become convinced that the salt and light argument is an invalid foundation for me to decide to send my children to a government school.
I have not finished my thinking through these three verses in Matthew. My mind keeps wandering back over and over to contemplate salt, hillside cities and light. I will perhaps write more when I have thoughts that I can put in some logical sequence that my readers can understand.










8 responses so far ↓
hiddenart // 19 May 2007 at 1:17 pm
Ah, I was writing earlier today on a similar thought, different slant. I’ll be posting it this evening.
We’re off to help build a neighborhood playground.
amanda
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Lori // 19 May 2007 at 3:52 pm
Hi, Julie! Thanks for letting me know where you went. I will put you on bloglines now!
Deb // 19 May 2007 at 7:13 pm
I’ve also heard that argument and feel it lacks as well.. mainly because when they say “We” should be salt of the earth (or lights) what parents are really doing is MAKING their children salt. If they took that scripture seriously concerning public education, parents would get an Ed. degree and begin teaching in schools themselves, not throwing their children in.
Besides,I know plenty of kids who are not the “knock on the door, Bible in your face” types, they are just not comfortable with that style of witnessing (that would be me too).
Now, if I had a child who felt this was their calling and they really wanted to do it, I would support them… but I Think those are rare children.
OTOH, I also disagree with the Homeschool scriptures that people say “is proof that God wants us to HS.” sigh. I never fit in anywhere
Sombra // 19 May 2007 at 7:51 pm
A city north of us, last week, veto’d a building permit to build a drug rehab center next door to a Church and Christian school. The parents of the Christian school did not think a rehab center was an appropriate neighbour for their young children to be exposed to.
Comments left to be broadcast from the radio were from people complaining about the Christians not loving the drug addicts enough to positively influence them, not loving them enough to want them to get healthy again, not being hospitable.. and not being salt and light to them.
Many comments came out sounding like “And YOU call yourself a CHRISTIAN!”
My personal rebuttal to that is, if those children were homeschooled, the parents would be right there beside those children, and WOULD be in a place to be able to come along side a drug addict and mentor that addict out of their relationship with the drugs into a relationship with Adonai - not sending the children out to do the work of adults, but bringing the children along to witness mom and dad’s Mitzvot to the downtrodden and hurting, and carry on that supportive work into their adult lives.
Think I’m wacked out and wrong.. Guess, what, I’ve been there! I’ve done this. I have not sheltered my children from persons on drugs or alcohol, (or other life experiences) but I also haven’t sent my children out to be salt and light to persons who have the ability to take my untrained child and conform them to their way of thinking. I have stood with a friend who has struggled with drugs and alcohol, and I have loved her, and supported her, and encouraged her to know Adonai. She’s not there yet, but the drugs are loosing their hold on her life. She knows I love her - even if she slips and falls back into drugs.
We can’t send our children out to do a job - even to children who are their peers - if our children have not been trained and are independantly walking a strong walk with their God. We don’t expect our children to pull the weight financially, or physically, or emotionally… why do we think they should be able to pull their weight spiritually before they are spiritually mature. I don’t care if your child accepted Yeshua as saviour at 3 - they’re not ready to stand up to a theological challenge at 8 or 10 or 12, and not be negatively influenced by someone who has been taught witchcraft, or athiesm or demonology or just plain appathy. We need to allow our children the time to mature in their faith, and mature in their walk before we send them out into the harvest field to live out their faith before man and stand up for what they believe.
Bobbie // 19 May 2007 at 8:41 pm
I have found that usually when it is a Christian that is attacking your reason to Homeschool, it is because they are being convicted by the Holy Spirit and realize that if you can, perhaps they should.
My answer was always the same James 4 :17 If you know what is riht to do and don’t do it, That is sin.
So for me (not for them, but me) since knew it was the right thing for my family, if I didn’t I would be in sin.
That always seemed to take the pressure off of them.It is personal between Me Jesus and sin.
Because of Jesus, Bobbie
Acceptance-with-Joy // 19 May 2007 at 8:53 pm
Sombra,
Thank you for the example that you gave. You did a much better job explaining [This strategic location protects the city by allowing the inhabitants to see what is approaching]…
Protection doesn’t mean that we isolate our kids. It means that we help them identify dangers and teach them the appropriate way to respond to people who are hurting, potentially harmful environments, etc.
Mimi Rothschild // 4 June 2007 at 3:51 pm
Thanks for sharing. I look forward to reading more of your insights.
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